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I feel inspired by Swagger Design to try and be more fabulous. Since I work from home I find myself wearing jeans, t-shirts, and flip-flops or sneakers every day, even when I leave the house. So, armed with inspiration and information I'm going to try and make an effort. Wear jackets to pull an outfit together when I'm out of the house. Even if that outfit is jeans and a t-shirt, wearing nice, clean, well-fitting jeans and t-shirts will make a difference. Wear shoes other than flip-flops and old sneakers. I do like wearing heels and skirts, but feel like they are too dressy for trips to Target and the grocery store.

I don't have kids. I don't commute. I should have the energy stored away somewhere for making myself look more presentable on a regular basis.

One thing I do feel good about is my workout routine. I've graduated to doing some of my arm reps while sitting on the giant ball. I told Mike last night that I'll be well-balanced by the time he gets home. And I thought I caught a glimpse of a tiny bicept popping up.

I am also planning a fabulous SWAP! Details forthcoming. I'm almost done with my plan.


Justin said…
Sounds like a fun idea. Of all my friends you have some of the best fashion sense, like creating your own look. I think that kind of thing flies better in the Bay Area for a number of reasons too, like people seem a bit more cosmopolitan, it's not always so hot so you can get away with wearing warm coats, etc than in San Diego beach town USA.
Stephanie said…
There's definitely more pressure and more encouragement to dress nicely here than there ever was in OB!

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